If you like someone, of course you will oversee their problems, even if they do bother you. You don't want to lose them, for whatever reason that may be. But, (thankfully) you start to become more bothered, and frustrated as the problems progress. You compromise for someone and you expect them to try compromising too.
If they don't, you are still around, trying to convince yourself that you'll be fine with it. But in actual fact you want to scream and do everything frustrated people do. It really sucks if you want a person in your life, but you actually know they don't give a damn about you. You feel used, even if you are the one who tried.
You do things for them, difficult things, because you care enough. Apparently it's too much to get a thank you or to feel any kind of appreciation. My mistake I guess. It's just sad to know that you were close with someone at some stage and something made them different, the time, something that happened, who knows.?
If there's one thing I don't want to do, it's forget about the people who cared... If you keep pushing the real people away, you won't have anyone left. You will be left with yourself and all the problems no one else wanted to handle. Use your brain, if you are on the verge of pushing someone away.. Ask yourself what they did for you. Remember the hard times, if they were there for you then, they are meant to stay.
If someone cares enough, they'll be able to handle your bad days and make your good days even better. Give it a chance. And if you're the one being pushed away.. let it be, leave. Let them know they've lost you and don't turn back.
Turning back will only give your heart the chance to break again. It's great if you consider people's feelings in your decisions. But there comes a time when you just have to look after yourself for a change. Even if it hurts.
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